In answering a question in AMA I realised I was going on too much at length about my dating history, so I'm removing that from my answer and putting it here.
So I shall put it under a cut, it's just the basics (which even that gets a bit tl;dr), no real identifying information of anyone. The question was if you've ever been in an open relationship. I don't think there's any such thing, there's either rules, or you're swingers. Not that there's anything wrong with the latter, but personally, I read "open relationship" as not terribly responsible and not a whole lot of communication.
( A brief sexual history of eris: )
So I shall put it under a cut, it's just the basics (which even that gets a bit tl;dr), no real identifying information of anyone. The question was if you've ever been in an open relationship. I don't think there's any such thing, there's either rules, or you're swingers. Not that there's anything wrong with the latter, but personally, I read "open relationship" as not terribly responsible and not a whole lot of communication.
( A brief sexual history of eris: )