she smokes a pack a day, oh wait that's me but anyway ...

[hoveringsombrero]

The beauty of being offline is that if anyone decides to accuse me of random insane shit, it's gone from improbable to impossible! (kim possible? No, shut up disney channel!) if i were to make a list of "be wary" statements RE dating one of then would be to be wary of someone who has "evil and insane" exes. While some people DO attract such types , some are just plain incapable of remaining friends with past loves and must (opposite of romanticise) the past in order to deal with the present.